Your answers suggest that there is a need for healing of your “love wound,” an experience or experiences that have left you feeling broken and inadequate. The degree to which one feels lovable predicts how well one takes care of oneself and, to a lesser degree, how loving one is to others.

But this quiz is not a substitute for a proper assessment from a health care professional, and if you’re worried about feelings of self-hatred or relationship trouble, talk to a mental health counselor.